i’ve been w/my bf for 2.5 years now and i STILL don’t understand why he does this!!!
i’ll email him during the nights we work (b/c we hardly ever talk on the phone during those days) just to say hi and that i love him or to tell him about things that have happened. we both work 7p-7a. he sometimes writes back and then sometimes not at all-even if i ask him a question. but he reads it!! and the only reason i know this is b/c we both have each other’s passwords (and NOT b/c of a trust issue-sometimes his work filters certain things like jokes and he can only read them by checking me email).
he usually gets out of work early (supposed to stay till 7a but usually home by 2-3a) and will check his email again from home but won’t write me back. it frustrates me!! he checks his rc airplane website (his hobby) when he gets home to see what people wrote but he won’t write me back!!
we talk everyday that we have off and see each other at least once a week.
y r some guys like this?!!!
we work 12 hour shifts 3 nights a week and have the exact same schedule (i work in a hospital and he’s a commercial airline mechanic). i know sometimes he’s too busy to write back from work but he goes home early!!
we talk everyday that we have off and we see each other at least once a week (it would be more but i have 3 kids that i have part-time). we don’t live together.
we’ve discussed it in the past so he knows it bugs me. his answer to this was sometimes he’s had a bad nite at work and doesn’t feel like writing back or he knows he’ll talk to me w/in the next couple of days. he says he checks the airplane site b/c it helps him relax before going to bed.
