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is this silly?!!?

Posted on April 29, 2012 by admin| 11 Comments

been w/my bf for 3 years. we are both 29 (i have 3 daughters from previous marriage that he treats as his own).

we were being kind of flirty w/each other today after we got up (we both work nites). i was watching him get dressed and wanted to tell him how sexy i thought he was but was afraid it would make him late to meet a friend he was selling an rc airplane too so i was quiet. i did tease him about having a nice *ss when he was bending over to pick something up.
he went to go get his belt out of the closet saying he pants were falling off and i joked that he was going to lose more than his pants if he didnt leave soon. he promised to make it up to me when i got home from work in the morning

I sent him an email after i got to work telling him he was going to be in BIG trouble for getting me all worked up and then leaving. I then told him he had a nice butt. i said that he was SO sexy and didnt even know it. is this silly?

would u like getting that email if u were a guy?

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long post-but really need more patient,caring answers!! is he gone forever?

Posted on March 28, 2012 by admin| 10 Comments

been w/bf for 3 years. have had our issues (i have pmdd-taking meds and seeing counselor and he talked to a girl he works with during one of our fights-only talked once on the phone and then he told her they couldn’t talk anymore so he wouldn’t lose me).

just got back from camping trip w/his family on the 5th. i cleaned the house and made dinner then we went to work. next day he got up at 4:30p and spent entire time on laptop before we had to work again. got an email that nite saying he wanted to sleep alone for “me time” did this twice. the 2nd time he said it was b/c he was working late and was having trouble sleeping when i’m there this week. i got mad and drove to his work to check (thought he was lying to me). he was there and got really upset.

spent 3 days ignoring me. called finally to see if i could come over to videotape his rc plane for him and to ask how i was. i came over w/my 3 kids (that he loves). next day says he wants to relax instead of hanging out w/us…
i got upset b/c i felt he should hang out w/us (a little selfish). he gets mad saying all he wants to do is relax (fix his airplanes,clean the house,etc) and i’m ruining it by being upset at him. he tells me he loves me but needs his space not b/c he wants it but he needs it. then tells me he loves me and hangs up on me.

won’t talk to me now (since saturday). checks my voicemails (saved one of me apologizing) and checks my emails but won’t write back.

i messed up-i know but i’m afraid he’ll break up with me!!

HELP!!

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long post but really need help!!! does it sound like he’s going to leave? really anxious and sad!!?

Posted on March 27, 2012 by admin| 4 Comments

been w/bf for 3 years. have had our issues (i have pmdd-taking meds and seeing counselor and he talked to a girl he works with during one of our fights-only talked once on the phone and then he told her they couldn’t talk anymore so he wouldn’t lose me).

just got back from camping trip w/his family on the 5th. i cleaned the house and made dinner then we went to work. next day he got up at 4:30p and spent entire time on laptop before we had to work again. got an email that nite saying he wanted to sleep alone for “me time” did this twice. the 2nd time he said it was b/c he was working late and was having trouble sleeping when i’m there this week. i got mad and drove to his work to check (thought he was lying to me). he was there and got really upset.

spent 3 days ignoring me. called finally to see if i could come over to videotape his rc plane for him and to ask how i was. i came over w/my 3 kids (that he loves). next day says he wants to relax instead of hanging out w/us…
i got upset b/c i felt he should hang out w/us (a little selfish). he gets mad saying all he wants to do is relax (fix his airplanes,clean the house,etc) and i’m ruining it by being upset at him. he tells me he loves me but needs his space not b/c he wants it but he needs it. then tells me he loves me and hangs up on me.

won’t talk to me now (since saturday). checks my voicemails (saved one of me apologizing) and checks my emails but won’t write back.

i messed up-i know but i’m afraid he’ll break up with me!!

HELP!!

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want more answers…guys especially. is this a good idea?

Posted on March 25, 2012 by admin| 6 Comments

i’ve been w/my bf for almost 3 years now. we’ve had our ups and downs in the past (i have pmdd and he’s had depression in the past but we are both better now w/meds and counseling) but things have been great the past year. i have 3 little girls part-time that he adores and sees often (they spend the night w/me at his house once a week). we have discussed living together this coming Feb when my apt lease is up and marriage in the future.
in the beginning, i was pretty clingy and suffocated him alot. i’ve learned not to do that as much and things are better now.
he’s been really good to me the past month-helped fix my car when it broke, loaned me money when i was a little short, and helped me pick out and buy christmas presents for my kids. I want to show him how much i appreciate it by cooking him a nice dinner and lighting candles on the table while he’s at the flying field w/his friends flying rc airplanes this coming wednesday. do u think he’ll like this?
he knows i’m coming to the house but the original plan was for me to wait until he was done at the flying field and he’d call me. instead i’m going to use my house key and make dinner along with light candles on the table and wait for him.

he’s 29 and i’m 28. i love him very much and just want to show him how thankful i am he’s in my life and how much i appreciate all he’s done for me.

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surprising him w/dinner-will he think i’m too needy?

Posted on March 24, 2012 by admin| 8 Comments

i’ve been w/my bf for almost 3 years now. we’ve had our ups and downs in the past (i have pmdd and he’s had depression in the past but we are both better now w/meds and counseling) but things have been great the past year. i have 3 little girls part-time that he adores and sees often (they spend the night w/me at his house once a week). we have discussed living together this coming Feb when my apt lease is up and marriage in the future.

in the beginning, i was pretty clingy and suffocated him alot. i’ve learned not to do that as much and things are better now.

he’s been really good to me the past month-helped fix my car when it broke, loaned me money when i was a little short, and helped me pick out and buy christmas presents for my kids. I want to show him how much i appreciate it by cooking him a nice dinner and lighting candles on the table while he’s at the flying field w/his friends flying rc airplanes this coming wednesday. will it be too much?!! will he think i’m needy?
he knows i’m coming over to spend time with him that night (i normally work and he has off but i took that night off this week) but isn’t expecting me until he calls me to tell me he’s home from the field. i have a house key so i thought it would be sweet to cook dinner and be waiting for him as a surprise.

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would this make him think i’m too needy?

Posted on March 23, 2012 by admin| 10 Comments

i’ve been w/my bf for almost 3 years now. we’ve had our ups and downs in the past (i have pmdd and he’s had depression in the past but we are both better now w/meds and counseling) but things have been great the past year. i have 3 little girls part-time that he adores and sees often (they spend the night w/me at his house once a week). we have discussed living together this coming Feb when my apt lease is up and marriage in the future.

in the beginning, i was pretty clingy and suffocated him alot. i’ve learned not to do that as much and things are better now.

he’s been really good to me the past month-helped fix my car when it broke, loaned me money when i was a little short, and helped me pick out and buy christmas presents for my kids. I want to show him how much i appreciate it by cooking him a nice dinner and lighting candles on the table while he’s at the flying field w/his friends flying rc airplanes this coming wednesday. will it be too much?!! will he think i’m needy?
he knows i’m coming over to spend time with him that night (i normally work and he has off but i took that night off this week) but isn’t expecting me until he calls me to tell me he’s home from the field. i have a house key so i thought it would be sweet to cook dinner and be waiting for him as a surprise.
CLARIFICATION

i always cook dinner for him on the days we spend together (along with doing the laundry and dishes) but i’ve never had it set up w/candles lit as a surprise before-i thought it would be nice

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any patient,understanding people willing to answer?!!! is he gone?

Posted on March 14, 2012 by admin| 8 Comments

got into huge fight w/my bf of 3 years. we’ve had issues on and off for past 2 years b/c i have pmdd and he’s made poor choices (called girl co-worker last time we got into argument. they don’t talk anymore-he never cheated on me w/her). i am on meds and seeing a counselor

long story short-after coming home from weekend camping trip (and after i cleaned his house-we don’t live together) he told me he needed “me time” for two days!! i usually stay at his house on our work days (we work nites). i thought he was up to no good so i showed up at his work to check on him. he got upset but forgave me. he didnt talk to me for 3 days then called to ask if i would come over to videotape his rc airplane for him that he built (then asked me if i was doing ok). i came over w/my kids for a while. we talked again that nite. i stopped over his house next day so my daughter could use the bathroom after playing at the park near his house-he said he just wanted to relax instead of doing stuff w/us…
i got upset and tried to talk to him about how i wish he had asked me how i was first when he called instead of asking about the videotaping. he got mad telling me all he wanted to do was relax and i was ruining it. so i left (he did tell me he loved me).

i tried calling him a few hours later-he answered but was upset saying for me to just let him be. i told him i didn’t like being ignored-he said he didn’t want to do it but had to so he wouldn’t be stressed out-he said he loved me and hung up on me. i haven’t spoken w/him since (saturday). i’ve tried calling him-no answer (but he saved my voicemail) and he checks my emails but won’t write back. i’m worried he wants to leave!!!

thoughts?!!

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