got into huge fight w/my bf of 3 years. we’ve had issues on and off for past 2 years b/c i have pmdd and he’s made poor choices (called girl co-worker last time we got into argument. they don’t talk anymore-he never cheated on me w/her). i am on meds and seeing a counselor
long story short-after coming home from weekend camping trip (and after i cleaned his house-we don’t live together) he told me he needed “me time” for two days!! i usually stay at his house on our work days (we work nites). i thought he was up to no good so i showed up at his work to check on him. he got upset but forgave me. he didnt talk to me for 3 days then called to ask if i would come over to videotape his rc airplane for him that he built (then asked me if i was doing ok). i came over w/my kids for a while. we talked again that nite. i stopped over his house next day so my daughter could use the bathroom after playing at the park near his house-he said he just wanted to relax instead of doing stuff w/us…
i got upset and tried to talk to him about how i wish he had asked me how i was first when he called instead of asking about the videotaping. he got mad telling me all he wanted to do was relax and i was ruining it. so i left (he did tell me he loved me).
i tried calling him a few hours later-he answered but was upset saying for me to just let him be. i told him i didn’t like being ignored-he said he didn’t want to do it but had to so he wouldn’t be stressed out-he said he loved me and hung up on me. i haven’t spoken w/him since (saturday). i’ve tried calling him-no answer (but he saved my voicemail) and he checks my emails but won’t write back. i’m worried he wants to leave!!!
