been with my bf for almost 3 years. have good relationship and he loves my 3 girls i have part-time. don’t live together but i spend almost all my time at his house (except for when i have the kids-we agreed no overnite sleepovers w/kids until we are engaged). so i’m at my apt like 8 days a month.
we just went camping this past weekend w/his family. when we returned home on sunday am-i washed 4 loads of laundry,emptied and reloaded the dishwasher, and cooked dinner for us. he helped a little w/the laundry and cleaned up after dinner. then we laid down for a few hours before going to work (both work nites)
yesterday-he got up around 4:30p and spent the entire 2 hours before we left for work on his laptop. i folded a load of laundry,emptied the dishwasher, and made cookies (he asked me to) all by myself while he played on the computer (an rc airplane website-harmless). we then showered and left for work.
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i was originally going to go to his sister’s house today to help babysit her kids so she could go to a dentist appt but when my bf found out he got upset b/c he didnt want me getting up early on a work day. so i emailed her and canceled then emailed him to let him know and asked if it was ok that i still come over per usual.
he emailed me back saying he needed “me time” and that i should go home for today!! i was SO mad!! he’ll get his “me time” tomorrow b/c i have to work and he doesn’t so i usually go to my apt on wednesdays so he won’t wake me up during the day!! plus,my kids are on fall break so i won’t be at his house the rest of the week all day like i usually am.
i haven’t returned his emails or called him but his best friend emailed me to tell me that my bf told him i was driving him nuts.
thoughts?!! i want to be mad but not sure if it’s right for me to feel that way.
